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I started dating this man in November,2024 ( initials CC). He works as an orthopedic resident in Denver, Colorado. He lovebombed intensely the first few months of us dating. We took trips together, he introduced me to his family, I would spend virtually every waking second with this man. And the second we decided to get serious, married and move in together, he became the most emotionally manipulative, unresponsive and problematic human being. He was on dating apps multiple times during the entirety of us living together. He would stalk women on instagram, on Venmo, on Facebook- every virtual space possible. He also initiated conversations with his ex girlfriend when we decided to take a break so he could ‘figure out his mental space’. He also had intense anger issues, would yell and get physically violent during fights and when he was drunk. He would drive recklessly and is honestly very emotionally immature and unempathetic. It felt like I was dating a complete different human being at the start of our relationship and he turned into someone entirely different towards the end of it. When we were broken up but still living together, I went home. He had another girl over and slept with her in our apartment and hid my things away.

His ig is westcouchsurfing and he is the worst human being I have met, mind you I am a therapist so by virtue of my profession I have to practice more nuance in my thinking. So saying that, it genuinely means it is the worst thing you can do to yourself is find yourself in a relationship with this man.