Ex Review Details

AKA Paul Lakodi (changes his name) My ex has borderline personality disorder and was highly abusive. They made me promise not to see other men whilst they cheated on me dozens or hundreds of times. They did not respect safe words and broke up with me routinely. Whilist breifly living with him, he had me pack my bags over minor disagreements. They told lies about me frequently. They had their best friend mediate disagreements and be involved in all disputes - like a mother's boy on steroids, and our break up conversation was done through text between myself and him and his best friend/mommy and a third person. This also we an issue that the ex before me had to face as well. Their best friend is very validating but unaware that this is making the mental health disorder worse - expect them to use unqualified peers for mental health treatment for a serious personality disorder, instead of going to a doctor, therapist, or psychiatrist. Expect them to refuse to see the doctor for their various medical conditions. When I asked them to consider therapy for their borderline symptoms, they responded they didn't have the time or energy, whilst hatefully judging others for their mental health. They disclosed sensitive details about me to others in real time, and said I did not have the right to privacy. They would tell frightening stories about burning down buildings, breaking people's jaws, and damaging vehicles. They said if we broke up, they would attempt to reconcile but never did. They described their ex, who has been in a stable long term relationship for the past 6 years, as hateful and evil. We broke up 4 days after they begged me to visit more often, to move in with him, and that he'd be in my life forever. He does not work full time but will explain that his career comes first and he may be away for weeks or months at a time, however he is subsidized almost dollar for dollar by his mother, who he bitterly hates but will expect you to build a relationship to i

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