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Sy Hawi Jucina is a physically abusive avoidant. It wasn't until we hit month 8 that they let the mask drop because before that I saw so many different signs and chose to wave them off as quirks of being neurospicy. They said that their main fear when watching the movie Shutter Island was becoming the mother - That's nuts. They also related to the main character in Fight Club. This is a person who is severely mentally unwell, but fills their time so thoroughly that they never have to face it unless they are around one person for long enough that this new person in their life starts digging and searching for closeness through emotional vulnerability. The reason they don't score 1s across the board is because they truly are someone that tries to do Good - They just do not have the capacity to be "Good" when they only see others as objects. Also- Let's not forget them casually bringing up having HPV, not apologizing for exposing myself and others to it, and then proceeding to not do ANY research while leaving me to look it up the whole time. Truly a class act. Hawi Jucina broke my heart through an act that cannot be described as malicious, but it was done with the express interest of self preservation while using a soft and kind hearted individual.

You can find them on Feeld, they are polyamorous and haven't told other partners about their STD. They also were about to break up with one of their partners, yet on the same day when going through strife with another partner decided, and I quote, "I realized that I do actually value my relationship or whatever with them and I CAN put in the work to keep it if I have to." This behavior is very User coded with dissociation from their own feelings as a way to cope with dealing with their own abusive behaviors.